26 August 2022

What Advice Would You Give to Someone Who’s Dating Again after a Breakup?

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Trying to date again after a breakup can be hard. At 9in10 our truest advice would be:

Cry your tears. Journal your feelings. Be patient with yourself. Write down pros and cons of the relationship. Whenever you feel like you want them or you miss them, think of bad times. Learn from the mistakes that you both did in the relationship. Move on. Don't look back. Develop your interests, skills and mind-set. Read books, listen to music, try meditation and yoga, exercise. Understand your needs and wants. Dress up at home. Have your favourite meal. Ask yourself the questions that you wish someone had asked you. Don't jump into another relationship too quickly. Heal. Remember it's your job to love yourself and make yourself happy, no one is else's.

What advice would you give?

 

Comments
Tony Smith
28 September 2022

Every person is different. Learn from the mistakes from your previous relationship and move on. You deserve someone better than your previous partner.

Jack Hume
13 September 2022

Find someone with the same morals and interests as you. Don't expect anything from your partner either.

Bethan P
13 September 2022

I agree! My advice would be make sure to always love yourself first before you love someone else, this is so important and relationships can turn toxic if you dont. Also, please please heal!!! If not your relationship will be full of insecurities and it wont end well!

Nanette Drouiillard-Murphy
12 September 2022

My advice is always to get to know the beautiful woman who looks back at you in the mirror each morning. She is powerful courageous and capable. Take time for yourself every day. Make sure you are number one in your life. Don’t be afraid of being alone. Dating is important but don’t rush it.