14 July 2022

Could You Ever Get Back With Someone That's Cheated On You?

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Personally for us, no. You teach people how to treat you. If you tolerate somebody breaking your trust you are teaching them that the behavior is acceptable and they never learn a valuable lesson. They never learn that it is unacceptable to betray people they love and care about like that.Trust me, I understand being in love with somebody so deeply that you can't fathom not having them in your life. The hard truth is that most likely that person will repeat the behavior and hurt you again if you never give them the chance to deal with the consequences of their actions.Take a break from them, focus on loving yourself and respecting yourself. You will attract people who love and respect you and treat you well.If they learn their lesson and change (and they are still worth your time) then they will come around. Who knows, maybe by the time they come around you may have grown enough to realize that they are not the right fit for you, or you realize that this is something that can make you guys stronger in the future.It is very hard to clearly assess relationship while you are still in it. Space and time will help you be able to focus on your own priorities. Emotions make everything very foggy, when you feel like you are losing somebody important to you there is a physiological reaction to the stress and it makes you want to do anything not to lose that person. Only space and time away from this person will help you get your priorities in check and come to a solid conclusion about what is the best for YOU.

 

Comments
Bethan P
13 September 2022

I dont think i could get back with anyone whos cheated on me. Cheating is not a mistake and never will be, theres too much thought that goes into it for it to be a mistake.

Freya Holloway
27 July 2022

Gave my boyfriend a second chance and he done it again. If you cheat you're gone.

chad shaw
27 July 2022

I agree completely. I was betrayed by my bestfriend and my girlfriend. They were sleeping with each other for a few years. Despite thinking something was going on I told myself I was being ridiculous and that the two people that care about me would never do that. When I found out that my inkling was right I was in complete shock. I have not and will not speak to either of them ever again. I still cannot understand how someone can do that to another person. The effects of that will always be with me and I feel like I could never get that close to a person again. If someone has cheated on you just get rid of them. someone who truly loves and cares about you would not put you through something like that.